Fashion

Best Plus Size Barbie Inspired Outfit Ideas and Accessories to Wear to the 2023 Movie Release

Barbie-inspired fashion is nothing new but with the “Barbie” live action movie opening in theaters July 21 (starring Margot Robbie as Barbie and Ryan Gosling as Ken), plus-sized fashionistas are looking for the cutest pink outfits they can find.

You might be planning to see the highly-anticipated motion picture in theaters on opening day and want an amazing look or you might just like what the Barbie-core trend has to offer, but either way, if you’re here you’ve come to the right place. I’ve rounded up the definitive guide for classic Barbie outfits (like the pink tweed jacket and skirt set like the one Robbie is seen wearing in the film) and plenty of other outfits and accessories (ummm hello sequin evening bag and platform heels!) that you’ll be sure to love.

Shop my list of Barbie outfit ideas, including trendy pink cowboy boots, cottagecore dresses, hot pink silk pajama matching sets, and even a costume for the masculine-presenting among us that’s like the black and white fringe cowboy outfit that Gosling wears in the film. I’ve organized the outfits into categories so whatever your style, there’s a Barbie look for you!

Cowgirl Barbie

Flower Power Barbie

Lounge Barbie

Lawyer Barbie

Glam Barbie

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Cottagecore Barbie

Picnic Barbie

Edgy Barbie

Barbie comes in all shapes and sizes and interests and so I wanted to reflect that in my outfit options! How’d I do? Head to my Instagram to hear my explain every outfit and tell me which one you want to wear to the Barbie premiere.

Plus Sized First Date Outfits Part 2: What To Wear On A Date As A Fat Person In The Winter

Besties! I haven’t written a blog post in OVER A YEAR. And I’ve missed you!!!! I’m back to share more date outfits for plus sized bodies!

First dates can be scary so let me take some stress away by giving you some outfit recipes for the perfect flirty, comfy, and sexy outfit. You can focus on perfecting the “lip-bite then smile” and figure out what to say when they ask about your relationship to your family. First dates can also be hard if it brings up body insecurities. Here are outfits I would wear on a first date as a plus-sized person.

  1. Crop Top + Favorite Jeans + Gorg Coat + Cute Boot

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2. Little Dress + Tights + Cute Boots + Gorg Coat

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3. Fancy Pants + Sweater + Gorg Coat + Chunky Boot

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Fat women deserve to feel beautiful, flirty, fashionable, and cool on dates too. Hopefully, these outfits inspire you or lead you to living your best charming plus size dating life.

Ok love you tell me your fav on Instagram <3

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How To Wear Your Clothes All Year Round

There are a few basic principals to remember when putting together outfits for Fall, but one most overlooked is that you can wear key pieces all year round! Why tuck away beautiful dresses, skirts, and tops once the temperatures drop when, with just a few simple styling tricks, you could instead be seen sporting your favorite items any time. Today, I want to share with you the items and tips I have for being able to wear your whole closet all year long.

1. Accessories Make the Outfit

I am obsessed with this polka dot skirt and I couldn’t give it up for anything. I love the length and the color and the ruffles…I could go on and on. Since I want to wear it no matter how hot or cold it is, I switch out a few key details that make the outfit more seasonally appropriate no matter what time of year it may be. For Summer I paired the skirt with sandals, a light bag, and an airy peasant blouse. Boots, a dark belt, and a dark bag with the cowl neck top instantly take the skirt to a Fall/Winter place. Boom. There you go!

2. Sundresses and Winter Layers

For dress people your winter uniform will consist of the following: A black turtleneck, tights, boots, and your favorite sundress. The easiest and coolest way to wear your sundresses in the winter it to beef up the layers underneath. When I lived in Chicago I wore my sundresses all year round and stayed warm with this styling trick! You can layer with any dress, but I find it’s easiest to make the outfit work when there is black somewhere in the print of the sundress and then you can make all the under layers black for simplicities sake.

3. Arm Tights, Shine, and Denim

When starting with a blouse whose color transcends seasons, the vibe switch of a few key accessories can carry the item through many occasions. Switching the denim from light to dark, and changing the accessories from day to night by adding sparkle, and going from flats to heels are the perfect ingredients to ensure you end up with an adorable winter outfit.

What are your styling tips for cold weather? Tell me on Instagram and Facebook!

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Best Wide-Calf Boots For Fall 2019

Friends! It’s Fall! It’s time to wrap those puppies up in some boots. Last year you loved my suggestions so much that I thought I would make another wide-calf boot post this year! Here is the 6-way-tie for the “Best Boot of 2019” award:

Which are your faves? What boots am I missing? Tell me on Instagram and Facebook.

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Dating Guide For Fat Girls: Plus Size First Date Outfits

You did it! You’ve got a first date planned with someone really exciting! Yay! But!!! Now comes the tricky part: what do you wear?! You know I gotchu. Today we’re gonna talk about three different first date outfit formulas for plus sized bodies.

1. Flirty Dress and Sneakers

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dress + sneakers + purse + earrings = cutie

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A flirty frilly dress is probably my #1 date go-to item. I love feeling girly and swishy on a date. Find a dress that fits you perfectly, that makes you feel like a million bucks, and that is really cute. Never let it go. Hold it tight. Build it a shrine. You get it.

I like to tone down the girliness of the dress with some tennis-shoes. I chose some trendy chonk insta ho tennies here, but if they’re too much for you any white sneakers will do! I love comfy shoes on first dates so that if it feels right to take a walk around you’re prepared.

I chose a really trendy purse here too, I figure it’s important for people to know what they’re getting into if they want to date me, but any purse you like works! :)

2. Blouse and Jeans

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similar blouse + jeans + flats + purse + earrings = sophisticated lady

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A perfect blouse and jean combo will take you FAR. Finding options for your body that work perfectly will take some time, but once you do? You’ll have a date uniform for the ages.

I like to go with a billowy blouse in a dressed up material. I can either tuck it in or leave it out depending on if I’m feeling insecure about my tummy on that day or not. For the blouse you’re looking for the seeming to be placed perfectly on your shoulder, no buttons that pull (if there are any buttons), and for it to fall nicely around your hips. Other than those things the sky is the limit on sleeves, color, and pattern!

A perfectly fitting jean can be hard to find! I have talked at length about how much I love these Good American jeans, but if supporting Kardashians isn’t your style (totally get it) I am starting to fall in love with DL1961 so give their skinny jeans a try!

3. LBD and a Heel

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dress + strappy heel + earrings + choker + purse = classic hottie

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You need a Little Black Dress! You need several! Little Black Dresses are those fail-safe pieces that you know you can always throw on if you’re having an “I have nothing to wear” day! The LBD I have on here I love because it is still a little casual, and the buttons and collar give it some special visual interest!

I rarely wear heels, and tbh would probably never ever wear a stiletto on a first date again (I did once and it was wild maybe I’ll tell that story one day but not today lol) so these strappy sandals with a small block heel are the perfect elevation. Again! You want the option to walk around if it feels right! The walk after a date is where the romantic magic happens.

That’s it! After you’re dressed remember to be yourself, be curious, and remember that you’re the shit and anyone would be lucky to date you! It’s about if you like them and if you two vibe together, not about making anyone like you. Tell me your first date outfits and tips on Instagram or Facebook!

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The 7 Bras Every Person Needs In Their Wardrobe! (For Big Boobs AND Small Boobs!)

Finding cute and supportive bras is hard! Finding cute and supportive bras is especially hard if you have giant gazongas. Finding cute and comfortable bras is especially hard when you have tiny titties. It’s just hard!

I feel uniquely qualified to give y’all bra tips because I used to work as a certified bra fitter. My time working in the Lingerie Department at Nordstrom taught me a few things: 1. You’re wearing the wrong size bra 2. There are lots of cute options out there once you know where to look! and 3. Many, many, many women have hair on their breasts, it’s totally normal.

In this blog post I’m going to point out the 7 different types of bras that every woman needs in her wardrobe and I’ll recommend some different options for both small and large boobie babies. Then I’ll go through my most worn bras and why I need all of them (because I’m a hoarder)! Yay!

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T Shirt Bra

You need a skin colored smooth bra that won’t show under clothing. This is your most basic option of bra. You need something that won’t give you cottage-cheese boobies under thin tops and will match your skin tone under light colored and/or see through shirts!

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The Natori Legend Full Figure Bra is what I use! It is fulllllllllllll coverage. Like, it’s basically a turtle neck. But under a t shirt that’s what I want! A full coverage t shirt bra on big boobs ensures you don’t get a visible line and that’s what it’s all about. For darker skin tones try the Nubian Skin Naked Bra.

The Simone Perele Andora Demi is a perfect t shirt bra for smaller breasts! There is an impressive color shade range and delicate details to make this everyday bra the one you reach for the most in your closet. Calvin Klein bras are also really good, but their shade range is not.

Unlined Bra

I wear an unlined bra 99.9% of the time. My unlined bra is lace, but it doesn’t have to be. It can be a smooth fabric, unlined just means that the cup has no shape on its own when it’s off of your body. I own a beige and a black and I wear it most days. I like to have a really comfortable, really supportive bra that is still beautiful. Unlined bras are also perfect for any thicker top (sweaters and knits) and they feel a little lighter which I love because I run hot.

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The Panache Envy bra changed my whole life when I put it on! I am a 36GG in this bra and it’s the most comfortable bra I’ve ever owned while still being so, so pretty and sexy. I am a firm believer in wearing undergarments everyday that make us feel confident and beautiful and seductive, not just when we have a date. The Envy gives me the support and the shape that I need without having to sacrifice any cuteness.

The Wacoal Embrace Lace Bra is a classic really. There a lots and lots of really beautiful and practical unlined bra options for smaller breasts but I think this Wacoal bra has to be my favorite (plus it does come in a wide size range! I own this bra in a few lace variations including all white! It’s so pretty under sheer things in the summer it’s to die for. Anyway! I digress.) The Embrace Lace is a pretty seamed lace bra that is also comfortable and stretchy so it will form to your smaller (or larger) chest! It’s a classic for a reason.

Strapless Bra

Do not be afraid of strapless bras! You just need the band to be tight enough to keep your boobs up (and all your bras should fit like that btw. Get over “back fat” rn. Embrace it. You need a snug band). The only strapless bra option as far as I’m concerned is the Wacoal Red Carpet Strapless bra. It’s perfect and can fit anybody! You need it!

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Check periodically throughout the year, they usually have a brown color as well (they need to make it a permanent addition to the line!). It’s an amazing bra, though. A good strapless will open up your wardrobe in ways you’ve never dreamed of before! Hello strappy tops and halter dresses!

Plunge Bra

A plunge bra will let you wear all those plunging necklines you’ve always wanted to try! Plus they can be more comfortable for some people because a “plunge” bra means that the center gore is smaller, so it won’t poke into your ribcage if you have a problem with that.

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Sexy cleavage alert!!! The Freya Deco bra plunges down low and has a way of pushing the puppies together in the best way. There are usually tons of different colors (I own this bra in black, sherbert, fuscia, pink) so search around for fun patterns and prints!

The Natori Feather is such a go-to classic bra for so many women! It’s also v size inclusive! I own this one, but it’s best on smaller boobies. It plunges super low and has really pretty lace, but is also really smooth under shirts so this could double as a pretty t shirt bra as well! The Feather will change your life.

Sports Bra

If you don’t workout then disregard this one! But if you do! You’re going to need a sports bra. It’s important to wear a sports bra while working out because it’s usually made of materials that wick away moisture!

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The Wacoal Underwire Sports Bra is an amazing choice for larger chests. It’s very supportive. The underwire makes sure you are locked and loaded and ready for action. It can be painful to do the activities you want to do when you’re bouncing all around, this bra helps make it easier!

Support isn’t really a concern for smaller chests so pick something super cute out! Nike is a really great option for support and style.

Bralette/ Wireless Bra

You know those days when you don’t care about support, but you don’t want your skin to touch your own other skin? You need a bralette for those days. Bigger chested people are never going to get good support from a bralette, and smaller chested people will never have to worry about that, no matter your predicament, everyone needs a bralette.

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Calvin Klein has a very trendy and now inclusive bralette. Feel like a supermodel while you netflix and chill in bed!

This Spanx bralette is utilitarian but it’s something you could comfortably wear every single day! There are also tons of beautiful lace options in bralettes for you! Try free people or wacoal if you’re in a fairy queen mood!

Sexy Bra

I’m a firm believer in wearing lingerie every day for yourself and not for a partner…BUT it’s fun to have super sexy special occasion bras. The strappier the better. If you’re not making your partner a little bit scared you’re not doing it right.

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Elomi nailed it with this one. The straps on top are so cute! They’d be so flirty poking out of a black floral mini dress! The possibilities are endless with this cutie.

Chantelle really gets how to make sexy and beautiful lingerie. Leave it to the French. The bows are the cutest. You’re a present and it’s time to unwrap!

Honorable Mentions Include:

My Collection!

(me flexing) The links and what I wear them with, plus my size variations to demonstrate how much you need a trained professional to help you at the store.

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a. The White Embrace Lace Wacoal I was braggin on | 38F | To wear with sheer patterned summer blouses that have white in them, and under white t shirts on dates.

b. My Chantelle Minimizer | 36H | For days when I want a flatter shape or blouses that are a little too tight in the chest but perfect everywhere else.

c. Our bb The Panache Lace | 36GG | Everything.

d. Red lace it’s so pretty I wanna die when I put it on | 38FF | It’s a balconette which means it’s flat across from armpit to armpit so it’s perfect for all the square neck tops that are getting really trendy.

e. One hook on the back! It’s a low, scoop, ballerina back and it’s comfy! | 38FF | Scoop backed tops and dresses.

f. Freya Deco | 36GG | When I have a v neck or scoop t shirt that requires less coverage in the bra area and smoothness.

g. Natori Sports Bra - My boobs wouldn’t dream of moving in this one | 38G | Cycling, dancing, and yoga! It’s great for everything.

h. Wacoal Red Carpet Strapless | 38G | All my off the shoulder tops, all my halter tops, all my spaghetti strap tops.

i. Natori Feather | 36F | For the clothing items that have a true v neck plunge. It is not supportive, but I need it for the low plunging items so I deal.

j. Natori t shirt bra | 38F | T shirts/when I wear something sheer and I want a bra that camouflages into my skin so I don’t have to wear a cami.

k. A Chantelle offshoot that doesn’t even exist anymore. Something similar | 36G | Sweaters/square neck tops. It’s another lace balconette.

l. Chantelle Opera. They discontinued this exact style, but here’s something similar | 36F | Sweaters/square neck tops. It’s another lace balconette. I also wear it with things where straps might show because the color is so pretty and there’s a ton of pretty lace on the straps.

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o. Ann Summers Body Suit. Sold out, but here is something similar | XL F/H | Under dresses when you want a smoothing bodysuit, but you want it to be cute!

There we go! I have spelled out the essentials for you, but of course there is so much more to cover! What was your favorite and what did I miss? Tell me on Instagram or Facebook!

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New Jewelry Line Launch! Welcome to Love, Katie

You read that title correctly :) I started a business! Fed up with the lack of on-trend yet timeless accessories on the market for an affordable price, I decided the only solution was to design my own line. Be the change etc. ;)

Here is my debut accessory line! I am so so so excited for you to see it! I hope you love it as much as I do.

It’s a mix of handmade, designed, and curated pieces that I believe will fit in perfectly with your wardrobe and become instant classics for you! With my earrings, necklaces, rings, and hair accessories, I hope to make you live your hottie-fantasy while also making you smile with a dash of whimsy.

I’m living for pearls, bling, and gold rn so that’s what I tried to stick with while making this first collection! Delicate details mixed with statement-making shine and dimension work together to create my dream line, and I hope it’s dreamy for you too!

Shop Love, Katie by clicking on the tab at the top of the page or by clicking here!

Which pieces are your favorite? Tell me on Facebook and Instagram.

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25 Sale Accessories That Are Perfect For Summer

I live my life by a very simple principle: “accessories make the outfit”. My Momma has always told me so and she knows what’s up. And so: rings, earrings, shoes, bags, scarves, and anything else I could turn into a hair accessory became my best friends. I may have been too fat to fit into every clothing item I wanted to, but a shoe or an earring or a hat would always work.

I’m wearing a size small here. Really goes to show that size on the tag means nothing!

I’m wearing a size small here. Really goes to show that size on the tag means nothing!

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Accessories became a way for me to get the sweet hit of getting-something-new-dopamine that capitalism has conditioned us to crave without having the mental breakdown of jeans not pulling up past my thighs. Fitting rooms are a much more fun experience now, but I still am deeply fond of my accessories. So! Today I have rounded up 25 of my favorite Summer Accessories that just also happen to be on sale (or are really cheap) right now!

Anthropologie

Nordstrom

Urban Outfitters

Target

J.Crew

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The hat makes the outfit! Tell me your favorites that I’ve listed here and your accessories mantras on Instagram and Facebook!

Tbh while making this list I was struck by how hard it was to find affordable and trendy accessories…I think I might have to do something about that…check back next week to see what that is. ;)

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Fitting Room Breakdowns: What To Do When Clothes Don't Fit

One of the perks of being an actor is having many glorious day jobs ;). One of my day jobs is in a mall…which is dangerous for me…because I shop too much. Shopping has always been one of my favorite things to do. I love to walk through beautiful stores and look at the beautiful fashion, it’s like going to a museum.

Trying on clothes however, is a different story. Actually placing clothes on my body can be v v v triggering for me. CUT TO a montage of me weeping in copious dressing rooms over the years because the size 12 or 14 was still WAY too small on me. Shopping with friends even still usually includes me trying nothing on because a store doesn’t carry my size.

I was shopping in Nordstrom after a shift one day last week and I found so many amazingly adorable things that I will show you now check it out:

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I then tried on a size Large dress that I thought was going to be ok. I am in no way a size Large, but this dress looked generous and you never know, right? Lol. Major wrong. My L white dream quickly turned into an XXXL nightmare. The dress was way too small.

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In the past a dress this small would’ve cued a major mental breakdown and shame spiral that would’ve lasted for hours. I would’ve blamed myself for being so fat, I would’ve cursed God for making me this way, I would’ve told myself that I was so disgusting that no one would ever want me, and it would’ve gone on and on and on.

But last week instead of letting one piece of clothing make me hate myself, I laughed. It’s funny! Look at that dress it’s way too small! The dress doesn’t fit me and that’s O.K.

The next time you are in a dressing room, looking at every inch of your body under horrible lighting and something doesn’t fit, remember these words: The garment is wrong, not you. You are perfect! The dress just is the wrong size. Every single company has different fit models and therefore every brand is going to fit you differently and therefore the size on the tag means literally nothing and therefore the dress is wrong. Not. You.

You are a gorgeous and glorious ray of light from the universe who is magnificent and some fabric doesn’t change that! Look at yourself stuffed like a sausage, laugh, and move onto the next piece of clothing that does fit.

How do you handle dressing room stress? Tell me on Instagram or Facebook!

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Shop 10 Peasant Blouses You Need For Summer While I Talk About Mental Health :)

Today I wanna show you some peasant blouses to help you live your Ren Fair Slut Dreams while I pepper in some deep thoughts on mental health. What could be better? Talking about mental health can feel overwhelming, or triggering, or stressful so I’m here to soften the blow. Working on my mental health is one of the most important parts of my life and I know it could help you too!

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DO YOU HEAR THAT? THAT’s the sound of mental health awareness month baby!
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I’ve been in therapy since high school. I went because my parents forced me. The night before my first session I remember being on the phone with a guy I had a HUGE crush on, telling him I was embarrassed about starting therapy and how I thought it was for weak babies. He told me that if it would help then I should think about trying it because it’s not for weak babies it’s brave. I’m really grateful he said that and I’m really grateful my parents sent me because my relationship with my therapist has been the defining relationship in my life.
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Self work is so important to me. Over the past decade it’s what has taken top priority and my therapist is the shit. He is constantly in my corner, being hard on me when I need it, but fully understanding me and what I’m meant to learn in this life. He’s also teaching me energy work and ~*Spiritual Stuff*~ and it’s fucking awesome. I am so lucky he was brought into my life. I don’t know where I’d be without him.

Shopping Intermission

You’ve been reading a lot! Take a break! Look at these cute peasant tops that you could wear to therapy?? :)!

Click the image to shop if you wish!

I have worked HARD on dealing with my PTSD and anxiety issues in general (I was having panic attacks every night and was hospitalized twice), on getting to know who I am and why I’m here, on how to set boundaries and know my needs, how to communicate my feelings effectively and stand up for myself...so much. All my confidence and all the ways I’m secure in my skin come from my work with my therapist. All of it.
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I am not a weak baby! I am a strong woman! I have SOMUCH left to learn. I still get sad and cry or feel insecure sometimes. I am still learning how to more consistently and kindly implement the lessons I’ve mentioned, and I’m sure there’s a bunch to learn that I’m not even aware of yet.
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I think self work is the purpose of life and it doesn’t stop the whole time we’re on Earth. But! I’ve come a long ass way and I’m proud of the work I’ve done. I also can’t wait to see who I become.
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There is still a stigma surrounding therapy or self work. Humans are still expected to automatically just have everything together or else they are an embarrassing failure. So many people are struggling though, and there’s no shame in admitting that someone helping you would feel nice and make life better! Asking for help when we need it is brave and strong, not weak.

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If you’re thinking about starting therapy but you’re unsure message me! Are you already in therapy? What helps your mental health? Let’s chat on Facebook and Instagram. :) <3

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